Are men to be trusted when they deny that p*rn*gr*phy IS an accurate depiction of male s*x*ality?

If all the unspeakably disgusting things that go on in these films were not accurate depiction of men's desires, it wouldn't be produced and it wouldn't sell. It does continue to be produced and it does sell massively, so we can gather that men like the idea of making us s*ck off whatever is on his thing after it's been stuck where the sun doesn't shine, for example.