Should I come out as bi-sexual or lesbian?

Sexual orientation is mostly defined by *sexual* attraction. Sexual attraction is determined by sexual arousal or "horniness." Sexual arousal is triggered by erotic stimuli, which can be anything from penis, to big or small boobs, six-pack abs, etc. Thus, sexual orientation is determined by the gender of the individual that naturally possesses the erotic stimuli. Therefore, if you are sexually attracted to opposite-sex individuals only, you are considered "straight" or heterosexual. If you're sexually attracted to same-sex individuals only, you are considered "gay" or homosexual. If you're sexually attracted to individuals of both sexes, you are considered "bi" or bisexual. Here are more aspects of sexual orientation to consider. To be correctly attributed with any of the sexual orientations listed, you *require* to feel a valid sexual attraction to individuals of a particular gender. Simply engaging in "questionable" activity, such as kissing someone of the same-sex when you have no real sexual attraction to him or her, or even touching his or her genitals, does not consider you gay per-se. Instead, you are required to experience sexual arousal when engaging in such activity. By that logic, people of the same sex that kiss their family members or doctors that touch their patients of the same-sex's genitals are "gay," which is obviously not the case intrinsically. Thus, determine which ones get you *sexually* aroused.